Yes? No? Why?
Just don’t know how to say. Why Yes? Why No? Why why why? No idea. Sometimes it’s really hard especially when you were ask to do something which you didn’t like to do it. Yes, I have my right to say No. But what if you’re cornered in a situation where you can’t say NO? Cornered I mean, it might be your best friend, your superior, your parents, someone close that you would like to say YES, but it’s just NO in your heart deeply.
*pestering *pestering *pestering… on and on and on…
Wah! Really cannot tahan one loh. When you say No. People will ask you why no? Why? So do I need to reason out for you if I to say No?
ARGH!
Stop pestering me and go away please……..
If I say Yes, might end up eating this pile of ewww.. you know what. So anyone ever encounter this kinda decision making shits?
June 19th, 2007 at 2:59 am
Yes No Yes No One Two Kali Zom… Head or Tail? Haha… Just tell me how do you decide what to do when you are cornered? My answer is simple. YES if you think you can do it. NO if you think you can’t do it. It applies to anybody regardless of relationships.
Just answer me these few questions. Would you be a guarantor for your best friend for a RM100K loan when you are earning less than RM1K a month? Would you go all out to the North to get something for your Mum as requested for that day when you have an urgent appointment at the South? Would you agree to meet up your girlfriend within 10 minutes when you are aware that it would take a safe 30 minutes journey to reach her place?
If your answer to any of the above questions is a YES, then I would call you a stupid as it is impossible to please ANYBODY beyond your means. If I were you, I would answer, “Sorry, I ‘m not in the position to help you.”, “I’ve an urgent appointment to attend to. Can I do it the next day?” and “I shall reach there safely with 30 minutes.” So do you see the difference there? The answers lies within your own ability to meet the deadline. Response smartly and always try to say NO if you can’t. Being a YES man gets you into more problems if you can’t do it.
June 19th, 2007 at 8:51 am
Criz : wahhh.. a long one.. thanks a lot.